a poem that ive made. =)

There is no reason for you to weep

To hold your breath, to let you die

There's always a room for happy ending

And time for everything

If you try to let go

And tired of holding on

Just be careful

Not to stumble and fall

If your days had been so cloudy

Too much trouble

And too much worries

I'll be glad to set a smile 

For your eyes not to tear and cry

Don't embrace love too much

Because sometimes you’ll miss your touch

Don’t give yourself too much

Because life don’t need to rush

NBSB.

Me, as NBSB (no boyfriend since birth)

I don’t have experience having a boyfriend. Maybe because I was this so sassy or maybe I was just being conservative. But I don’t think that I am too much of a conservative type.

It is just that I have a choice, a choice that I want to do that is not against my belief. As of my high school days, I don’t have the thought of having boyfriend, because I know that I am happy and I enjoyed what I do. 

There just this one guy I met in a camp on a church activity four years ago. I was first year high school then. He was introduced to me by my cousin. The first time I saw him, I already had a crush on him. It was a five day camp, we don’t talk a lot that time. After that camp, I receive a text message from him and I was like blushing. We've been texting for three years and I can say that, that was an M.U..  One day he asked me if we can be in a official relationship, I was having second thoughts because if it happened to be us it will be a long distance relationship.

I was so young that time to have a relationship and not only a relationship but a long distance relationship. I didn't want to waste my time having commitments that I think it will be hard for us to work. In fact, we can wait on the right time that we are now both in the right age. In other words I didn't let him to be my first boyfriend. And what good is that he understands my point and accepted it. He didn't have the hurt feelings.

And now I’m already sixteen. Sometimes, there’s a thought of having a boyfriend.  But i dont regret the fact that i havent experience having boyfriend. I am still waiting for the right time, and the right man. I want the first boyfriend that I will be having will also be the one that I will be marrying. 

I used to be the Wackiest girl.

It is always great to have the feeling of happiness, being inspired and motivated every day. Having this kind of energy gives you the positive perspective in life. You can make also people around you happy and motivated as well as you are.

When I was a kid, I used to cry whenever I get pissed off. But that was before, I have already changed. Since I enter high school, I’ve met happy and funny people. It started there, I became interested in many things and discovered things that I’m not usually doing.

And because I have friends and classmates who are hyperactive, I also adopt this kind of energy. Sometimes I do the weirdest thing in classroom, and even outside the school. For me, it is dun making people laugh; it is how I express myself.

Dancing crazy moves, singing songs in a loud voice, cracking a joke, impersonating people and everything that is fun is what I used to do. Sometimes they get annoyed but most of the times they laugh so hard. Even when I’m not making funny things they would still laugh at me. I love it when I give them a positive vibes.

Every day for me is an opportunity to at least make people motivated to continue life with a smile. I am happier whenever I see my friends, classmates and even my family and everyone around me happy smiling as if there is no problem. It’s always good to be a source of laughter and smile in this world full of struggles and stress.

I would love to continue this kind of energy. I will 

never get tired of everything, as long as I make someone happy. I will do my best and enjoy while doing it. If we have more fun, we will have less problems, if we have less problems we will have more peace on earth. 

ALWAYS REMEMBER TO  SMILE BIG! >                                      

Should parents be punish for their children's crime?

We know that parents should be the one who should discipline their child. We also know that it is their responsibility to take care on their child.

But imagine if all the parents will be the one who will be suffering on the crime that their child has done. How will the child learn their lessons if their parents will be the one who will be going to jail. they  will be doing the same crime over and over again because they know that they will not be punish.

What will be the effect on it on our family, or

even in the society? if plenty of our parents is in jail because many teens is taking advantage on the policy.

More and more children will not be guided by their parents. And how will they be supported if the parents is imprison? What will happen to the family? This surely will cause a lot of problems.

The children should be responsible in every action they do. They must accept the consequences that must be given to them. If and individual has committed crime they must accept the punishment that will be given to them. Children now must be responsible on their actions. If this policy will be implemented, they will have a fear in doing the crime that they have done again. 

people might say that parents should raise their child and teach them some manner. And it should be their fault if their child committed crime. Because others will think it is automatically your job when you're a parent to take care of your child and put them away to crime.

Imagine that also if we, teens or children didnt pay the punishment for us. We will never learn our mistakes. We will also never realize the bad thing that we have done. It is still better that the one who did the crime will also suffer its consequence. 

EDUCATION is a must.

Education as a choice.

Education is a must. We should all have to experience education.
Because if we set education as a choice other will not be go to school because of some unimportant reasons. It will be valid because education is just only a choice if this policy will be implemented.

We can learn more in schools. Even values and a lot more that should be learned. In schools there be a lot of experience like field trips that you can explore and learn new things. It is hard to be in a home study because you'll be learning by yourself unlike those who are in school there were plenty of students that can also teach you not only your teachers.

You can also learn how to follow rules, discipline and how to respect others if you are in school community. Presenting in a lot of people is one of experiences that you can do like in Lingo ng Wika, United Nations, and other events and programs in which you boost more your talents, skills and confidence. And in that you will have more experience and get use to do a lot of things. You might get successful as well.

Many people also said that why Bill Gates, and Steve Jobs did not have a degree yet there were one of the richest successful men in our time. There business is very productive. They can handle a good business and make it famous even more.

But even though they are now successful we cant say that we shouldn’t go to school and just have a great business just to be successful. It is always great and fun experience to be in school.

As we all know that now a days, in job hunting the company is requiring a degree on those employee that will be applying. So, how can you now get a job if you don’t even have a degree. We should not be irresponsible and don't rely on what you just know. Know and have the willingness to learn new things.

DEPRESSION

DEPRESSION

Depression is a stage in a person’s life that he/she is having a hard time accepting what just happened. It is also a feeling of deep sadness that is hard to recover.

There are many causes of depression. It can be a death of a love one, break-ups, rejection and failure. We experience this in our life.

 The death of a love is one of the major cause of depression. It gives more pain in a person’s life. This gives a big impact that is hard to forget. A person feels that a part of his/her life has gone. They feel so much pain because the one that they used to be with was now gone.

This cause of depression which is Break ups is common. Now a days, teen agers were the ones who experience this the most. They were the most stage of people who express their feeling in public when they break up with their partners.

Rejection is common to those who are working. 

A picture of an employee and his boss which the employee made a proposal and the boss did not approve or agreed on it. This can lead to depression for that employee.

And lastly, the failure in terms of studies and expectations of others. There were many people who is obsess to get a high grade but still fail. And there are a lot of people who wants to get what people expect them.

This all can lead to depression. Sometimes, it is not only depression but it can also lead to suicide because of they cant handle the situation.

Remember that there is no perfect day, there is no perfect life and even our world is not perfect. We must not think of failures in life rather see the goodness of life. It is not always good times, we must also learn how to accept. See life in a positive way. Don’t ever lose hope and keep on smiling. 

PROCRASTINATION

"Never put off until tomorrow what you can do today."

                                        -anonymous

Have you ever plan to do something but never accomplish anything?

When was the last time you did your assignment without procrastinating?How many times do you make a promise to do a certain task and then do – nothing?

PROCRASTINATION

PROCRASTINATION: an incurable illness of the mind

-          In psychology, procrastination refers to the act of replacing high-priority actions with tasks of lower priority, or doing something from which one derives enjoyment, and thus putting off important tasks to a later time. In accordance with Freud, the Pleasure principle may be responsible for procrastination; humans do not prefer negative emotions, and handing off a stressful task until a further date is enjoyable.
-          http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Procrastination

d EXAMPLES:

This man is a picture of procrastinating. He maybe doing something important, it can be his homework, or can be research in internet but he keeps on visiting his accounts and going to websites. This is procrastination because instead of doing what is first important he still do what does he wants to. 

Computer Games is also a cause of procrastination. Just like this boy, who should do his assignment but chooses to play computer. Procrastination is also a sign of laziness of a person, when a person dont like to do a certain thing he will not do it and do something he enjoys.

   
     Watching TV and eating is also cause of procrastination. This guy chooses to drink, sit on his couch all day and watch TV rather than to accomplish something. In here, the guy must be working and doing some task at home .

 Time is Gold …          
 so, Never put                                                                        off until tomorrow what you can do today.

Let us be responsible in our tasks and time.

PE subject

Remove Physical Education Subject for the student to focus on their academic classes?
It is a big No.

As a student Physical Education is never a burden in my studies. In fact, it helps me release stress and as well as to enjoy school. This also helps me to mold my sports. In here you’ll be able to learn how to be artistic in your own way.

In my P.E. class in Elementary I was able to know how to play Volleyball which leads me to be a varsity player in high school. In addition to that, I was also able to practice my drawing or art skills which made me win a poster making in school.

So I don’t think that there is a reason to remove the P.E. subject. As we all know it is also a part of learning. Physical Education is a complete package; we can learn music, and arts and even sports. And it more expensive if we enroll in school that offers us to learn piano, guitar, or an art class, swimming class, and dance class which we can learn all in P.E. subject.

Maybe other think that what if it’s better to only have academic subjects. The student will be more focus and serious in studying. They can be always in the top students who always get a high grade

But we can always be focus and serious in our studies, and Physical Education is not reason for us to fail. Just imagine also if we don’t have P.E. subject, there will be harder learning of music, arts and sports.

Remember that it is important to have time management in your studies. Physical Education is never a reason for us not to focus on academic subjects. We just have to be responsible always in our time and especially studies. That’s also why we have basketball players like; Lebron, Wade, Nowitzki , and Bryant because they have mold their sport in their university that they have studied. 

of all subject areas in school taught in school, Physical Education is the only subject which, by the very nature of its content, has the potential to affect how he person will feel every moment of everyday in his or her life.

                                                                                                          -Allen Russell

FIXED MARRIAGE

THERE SHOULD NOT HAVE FIXED MARRIAGE/ARRANGED MARRIAGE.  WE SHOULD MARRY BECAUSE OF LOVE.

     

 Can you imagine that you’ll be marrying the one you love? And being with that person with the rest of your life? Isn’t that great that you’ll be having a happy and fruitful life because you have married the right person. 

       It is always great to marry the one we love. It is the love why a person should marry. There is no sense if you are not marrying the one you love and forcing yourself to marry a person just because your parent wants to.

    Why marry if you don’t love that person?  That will be useless.

As we have argued in our debate in public speaking, they've said that there is nothing wrong with fixed marriage. In fact, fixed marriage helps a family to be practical in life. And they've also said that it is good because there is clear parents consent for a couple to be married.  

     If being practical is the reason why they have to marry, can’t they be practical in their own? As we all know it is all about their business, their deals and other thing that involves money.

On that thing that they’ve said that there is a clear parents consent in fixed marriage, I’m also sure that even not in fixed marriage there also a consent of parents.

    The other team also said that “what if it ends in divorce?” .  And we reply that surely it is not love why they get marry. I think there is more possibility in a fixed marriage to be divorce someday, because at first you don’t love the person that you’ll be marrying that’s why it can lead to divorcing.

    And if divorce happen, there will be a broken family. If there’s a broken family, there will be more burdens in the society. And it will be harder for a person to be a single parent especially if they already had kids. There will be the one that will suffer the most.

    But if we do the right thing, for sure the marriage will work. The marriage will last long because of the reason that you truly love that person. As this saying tells us that LOVE CONQUERS ALL meaning no even one problem can destroy a marriage. Even death is not a reason for a person to stop loving his/her partner.

BestFriends Forever!

BEST FRIENDS TO THE MOON AND BACK.

                                         

    In the midst of despair, sorrow and of fun moments that came in to my life, there is always that one best friend that gives me the strength to believe in life again. A best friend who always there to support, makes me laugh so hard even in my deepest sadness.

    This girl has a deep voice that sometimes sounds like a man’s voice. You will always notice that she is coming because you will smell her cologne that she has been using since our first year high school.  

     This girl that I’m talking about is my best friend in high school. Her name is Jereca. I met her in my first year in high school and we got closed easily. Since then I always been excited to go to school. We are always the two energetic girls in the class especially when it comes to recitation and games. We talk a lot and share a lot even personal things in our life. What I wanted about our relationship as best friend is even though we have plenty of differences, dislikes and likes and even beliefs we still have the respect and understand each other.

     We can always relate to each other. We do a lot of crazy stuff. Sometimes when we were bored we act as if we were Hollywood stars, model like models of Victoria’s Secret, and sing in class rooms as if we were Charice Pempenco, Sarah Geronimo, and Maria Carey.  We used to impersonate our classmates, teachers and all that we think is fun to impersonate. Many people think that we are weird but I admit that we are really weird. We are sociable, kind and funny because even we meet people at first time we along with them easily.

We like modeling. We were imitating the models in magazines. 

      Whenever I remember the days that we are laughing, sharing jokes and having our good days, It always makes me smile and even laugh. 

     One thing also that I admire her is she is very devoted in worshiping God. We always worship or go to church together with our classmates even we are now in college. She will always make you happy, she cracks a joke unexpectedly and all you have to do is to laugh so hard. She will never put you down because she is a friend that wants you to enjoy life. She has a very good humor that will turn you on.

If I were to be given a chance to choose another friend, I won’t and I rather not.  Jereca gives me this positive vibes that until now is in me. She is always there to make you cry not by hurting you but because of making you laugh.

                    Thank you for this opportunity that I have shared a part of my happiness. 

Sex Education.

Sex Education

We must have Sex Education, we need it.

Sex Education is an education of which students will have knowledge about having sex. They must know what is the right time or age to have sex. Students must also know the effects of sex if they have sex in their young age.

The content of Sex education will be the possible effects of sex if you do it on an early age. It can be effects in a human body, physically or mentally and even in our community. This will include the disease, early pregnancy and premarital sex. This education will also teach us to have concern in our health, and same as in our community.

This is one of the proper ways to avoid early pregnancy. If plenty of women will experience early pregnancy they might get sick because it is not normal for a woman to get pregnant in an early age. It can also lead to over population if they keep on doing this activity without having knowledge and a concern in the community. Imagine that we are doing this because we want a safe and smooth way for everyone to have a better future and make everything in right place.

There will be always an issue in every right thing we will do. There are always people who will disagree on this idea. They might tell that what if this idea will not work? And they will also tell that what if students will not take this seriously and do the other way around and not follow the said education?

This is one of our problems that we are not mature enough to learn everything. But in this education we can learn how to be mature in understanding. The said education will use words that sounds good and not that harsh for them to understand it clearly and take it seriously.

It might be good to prevent pregnancy and have sex in a reason that we are using condoms, and pills. But imagine a young boy having sex, isn't that improper thing to do. it is always good to have knowledge because you’ll know when is the right time, right place and right age to do this activity.

We must all have dignity to take care to our body and virginity. And we must wait for the right time to have sex. We will know and understand all of these when we have this Sex Education.

An Increase in the price of cigarette.

In every big change there will always be a bigger outcome.

Should the government increase the price of the cigarette?

 YES!

If they do that there will be many people who will benefit on it. First, the people who is using cigarette they might not want it but it will help them. The ones who are using cigarette will lessen the use of it because it is more expensive than before.

Second is the second hand smoker on which cigarette is more dangerous on their part. They can inhale the smoke and goes directly on their lungs because they don’t have filter unlike the first hand smoker. Second hand smoker can be children, babies, and people around the first hand smoker.

Third reason on why they must increase the price of cigarette is because the cigarette smoke adds pollution in our society. And if the society is affected, people and also environment is affected as well. Imagine how many sticks or even packs of cigarette a person use in a day. And come to think of it that there are people who are using cigarette all over the world. Even teenagers now is using cigarette. Imagine the outcome if we will not lessen the use of cigarette.

Imagine that even people who don’t have enough money afford to buy a pack of cigarette in a day. It is a great way to increase its price for them to just lessen the number of sticks that they will buy. In that case, they can save money, less pollution and have a healthy living.

We know that many will not agree on this specially the ones who are using cigarette. It is a big issue on them to increase the price of cigarette. As we all know that it is hard for them to lessen the use of cigarette.

But we can see that we will be having a better living and health if we have less use of cigarette. Imagine the outcome of this matter, the earth, people, government and even the one who is using it. In short we are all benefitting to have less use of cigarette.

I wrote this blog not because I don’t smoke, and I hate it. This is because I think there will be a big great effect on us and to the world if we take a step to help the world. I didn’t say that we must stop using a cigarette right away but to just lessen the use of it is already a big help.